Six Paramitas: Ethics
OK, now I remember: generosity must be the basis for ethics -- without a foundation in generosity and caring, ethics turns into a dry, crusty set of rules -- very boring. Generosity brings a sense of vitality to our conduct toward others, naturally turning our behavior towards "the good." In that sense, ethics is what grows from generosity. If Reality asks anything of us, it's only for simple acknowledgement, recognition. We tell the truth because it's the most basic form of celebration, and the most basic form of non-harming.
It's been interesting to notice how often my unethical behavior is triggered by the ego's grasping and aversion -- a desire to gain some imagined advantage for myself, or to fend off some unwanted possible consequence. But that's basically a form of insanity, isn't it? How could it be that an instance of harm will be "easier to deal with"?