2010.03.28 - Lojong 9 [Working With Distractions/5 Forces]

Eliza apologizes for the timestamps, but upgraded the SL viewer and isn't sure how to easily remove them. :) 

[2010/03/28 09:00]  Eliza Madrigal: Hi Mitsu, Dao :))
[2010/03/28 09:01]  Dao Yheng: Hi Eliza!
[2010/03/28 09:01]  Eliza Madrigal: So nice to see you
[2010/03/28 09:01]  Eliza Madrigal: How was retreat?
[2010/03/28 09:01]  Dao Yheng: You too!
[2010/03/28 09:01]  Eliza Madrigal: Thanks :)
[2010/03/28 09:01]  Mitsu Ishii: it was great
[2010/03/28 09:01]  Dao Yheng: the retreat was very good, thanks!
[2010/03/28 09:02]  Dao Yheng: and how have you been?
[2010/03/28 09:02]  Eliza Madrigal: Very well, many thanks :))
[2010/03/28 09:02]  Eliza Madrigal: I have really looked forward to gathering again, am glad you guys remembered :)
[2010/03/28 09:02]  Dao Yheng: It's interesting, we discussed abhidharma a lot at the retreat -- many tie ins to what we're doing here
[2010/03/28 09:03]  Eliza Madrigal: Ah, really?
[2010/03/28 09:03]  Zen Arado: Hi All
[2010/03/28 09:03]  Eliza Madrigal: Hi Zen :)
[2010/03/28 09:03]  Dao Yheng: Hi Zen!
[2010/03/28 09:04]  Eliza Madrigal: Can you say more about that Dao?
[2010/03/28 09:04]  Dao Yheng: I was just telling Eliza that we discussed abhidharma at the retreat Mitsu and I just attended
[2010/03/28 09:05]  Zen Arado: forgotten what abdidharms is
[2010/03/28 09:05]  Dao Yheng: we only got sort of the overview, but the idea of noticing different mind states, learning to see them more directly, feels very related to what we're doing here
[2010/03/28 09:05]  Zen Arado: it's supposed to be very advanced ?
[2010/03/28 09:05]  Eliza Madrigal: I'm only a bit familiar with abhidharma.. guess the first thing that comes to mind is karma/mind streams...
[2010/03/28 09:07]  Dao Yheng: I'm not sure if it's advanced or not -- the emphasis for us was to see it playing out in our lives
[2010/03/28 09:07]  Mitsu Ishii: it's not really "advanced" it is more like a system for identifying and understanding certain mind states
[2010/03/28 09:07]  Eliza Madrigal: I'm curious ... 'Mind states' is the part of our discussions I think I am least clear on
[2010/03/28 09:07]  Dao Yheng: little lists of mind states
[2010/03/28 09:08]  Eliza Madrigal: interesting.... is it like dormant seeds?
[2010/03/28 09:08]  Eliza Madrigal: that arise and frame things/tint them?
[2010/03/28 09:08]  Dao Yheng: it's presented in a very academic way in the lit, but I think it's pretty clear when you try to see it in your own life
[2010/03/28 09:09]  Mitsu Ishii: I'ts actually kind of a departure from the usual approach we take
[2010/03/28 09:09]  Mitsu Ishii: but I think that's why Steven decided to introduce it
[2010/03/28 09:09]  Mitsu Ishii: just to give us some tools to fill in things that we ordinarily don't cover
[2010/03/28 09:09]  Dao Yheng: anger could be considered a mind state, for instance
[2010/03/28 09:10]  Eliza Madrigal: Ah, the 'place' on acts from?
[2010/03/28 09:10]  Zen Arado: Steven?
[2010/03/28 09:10]  Eliza Madrigal: *one
[2010/03/28 09:10]  Mitsu Ishii: The idea isn't so much that the lists are all that profound, but just to start to think of mind states as things we can identify
[2010/03/28 09:10]  Eliza Madrigal: Zen, Stim (Steven Tainer) Mitsu and Dao are his students in RL
[2010/03/28 09:10]  Zen Arado: ah ok
[2010/03/28 09:10]  Mitsu Ishii: rather than saying "the world is terrible" or "this situation is doomed" we can say "this is mind state #14"
[2010/03/28 09:10]  Eliza Madrigal: /me smiles
[2010/03/28 09:11]  Eliza Madrigal: haha
[2010/03/28 09:11]  Eliza Madrigal: seems perfect for our technological age
[2010/03/28 09:11]  Dao Yheng: :)
[2010/03/28 09:11]  Zen Arado: neutrality in other words?
[2010/03/28 09:11]  Eliza Madrigal: Its a little like stating 'just the facts' then I guess.... with emotional charges being a fact... of sorts
[2010/03/28 09:11]  Zen Arado: instead of adding stoies about what happens
[2010/03/28 09:12]  Zen Arado: yes
[2010/03/28 09:12]  Eliza Madrigal: how defined is the system?
[2010/03/28 09:13]  Dao Yheng: there are many lists :)
[2010/03/28 09:13]  Eliza Madrigal: oh my
[2010/03/28 09:13]  Mitsu Ishii: in Buddhism in the old days there were many schools that emphasized lists of various kinds
[2010/03/28 09:13]  Mitsu Ishii: this is one of the sets of lists that has managed to survive the centuries :)
[2010/03/28 09:13]  Mitsu Ishii: frankly we don't know that much about it since we just started to study it. I mean I'd seen these lists before but hadn't paid much attention to them :)
[2010/03/28 09:14]  Eliza Madrigal: yes I've been interested lately in the logic systems... dharmakirti, nagarjuna... comparing a bit... at the beginnings though
[2010/03/28 09:14]  Eliza Madrigal: abhidharma seemed a little legalistic when I first saw it, at the beginning of things... but I think it is something that once you have other things to compare, can be useful/helpful
[2010/03/28 09:15]  Eliza Madrigal: so thanks for bringing it up... hadn't seen it as being part of the different minds discussion
[2010/03/28 09:16]  Eliza Madrigal: btw, I thought gaya would make it today but suppose not (waves to gaya from the log)
[2010/03/28 09:16]  Eliza Madrigal: :)))
[2010/03/28 09:16]  Dao Yheng: (hi gaya!)
[2010/03/28 09:16]  Dao Yheng: how has distraction been treating you this week?
[2010/03/28 09:16]  Zen Arado: she is waving from the future :)
[2010/03/28 09:16]  Eliza Madrigal: :)
[2010/03/28 09:17]  Eliza Madrigal: Hi Sweetness
[2010/03/28 09:17]  Zen Arado: Hi Sweetness
[2010/03/28 09:17]  Sweetness Delwood: Hello Zen, Eliza, All
[2010/03/28 09:17]  Eliza Madrigal: This is a weekly workshoip "Ways of Knowing".... http://ways-of-knowing.wik.is/
[2010/03/28 09:18]  Eliza Madrigal: I think you were here once before, but just in case :)
[2010/03/28 09:18]  Zen Arado: I wrote a bit about the distractions of modern life
[2010/03/28 09:18]  Sweetness Delwood: thank you
[2010/03/28 09:18]  Zen Arado: more persistent dustractions
[2010/03/28 09:18]  Zen Arado: ways we distract ourselves
[2010/03/28 09:18]  Eliza Madrigal: Hi Bleu :))
[2010/03/28 09:18]  Bleu Oleander: hi everyone
[2010/03/28 09:18]  Zen Arado: Hi Bleu :)
[2010/03/28 09:18]  Bleu Oleander: sorry i'm late
[2010/03/28 09:19]  Mitsu Ishii: hello Bleu
[2010/03/28 09:19]  Dao Yheng: no prob, hi!
[2010/03/28 09:19]  Eliza Madrigal: Let me give you a link to the wiki so you can catch up a bit. We're just coming out of a small break, so not too structured today http://ways-of-knowing.wik.is/
[2010/03/28 09:19]  Dao Yheng: it is a weird feature of modern life that we seem to like to remove ourselves from our lives
[2010/03/28 09:19]  Dao Yheng: (@ Zen)
[2010/03/28 09:20]  Bleu Oleander: ty
[2010/03/28 09:20]  Zen Arado: yes we fill our live with distraction
[2010/03/28 09:20]  Mitsu Ishii: Yes, Dao and I were away at a retreat and before that I was at SXSW... just getting back in the groove
[2010/03/28 09:20]  Dao Yheng: a really strong emphasis on separation seems to be part of it?
[2010/03/28 09:20]  Zen Arado: people scared of silence
[2010/03/28 09:21]  Eliza Madrigal: /me nods, and yes, connection/vulnerability
[2010/03/28 09:21]  Dao Yheng: Hmm, yes -- fear of not having something to do!
[2010/03/28 09:21]  Zen Arado: of boredom - the worst possible thing !
[2010/03/28 09:21]  Dao Yheng: :)
[2010/03/28 09:22]  Eliza Madrigal: I find that I'm sometimes more afraid of others judging my boredom, than the boredom itself... labeling it
[2010/03/28 09:22]  Sweetness Delwood: or perhaps fear of having something to do
[2010/03/28 09:22]  Dao Yheng: a psychologist friend once mentioned that as human beings having not enough to do is as stressful as having too much
[2010/03/28 09:22]  Eliza Madrigal: oh indeed
[2010/03/28 09:22]  Bleu Oleander: /me rarely feels bored
[2010/03/28 09:23]  Eliza Madrigal: I think of boredom as an inbetween place....
[2010/03/28 09:23]  Eliza Madrigal: a place of potential to sit with
[2010/03/28 09:23]  Eliza Madrigal: maybe restlessness is a better term?
[2010/03/28 09:23]  Zen Arado: are we too work ethic conditioned?
[2010/03/28 09:23]  Bleu Oleander: boredom feels anxious to me
[2010/03/28 09:24]  Eliza Madrigal: hm, there is often a confusion about it
[2010/03/28 09:24]  Zen Arado: I sometimes sit with it - investigate it - what is it exactly?
[2010/03/28 09:24]  Bleu Oleander: peacful reflection vs boredom
[2010/03/28 09:24]  Mitsu Ishii: so, when it comes to practicing while distracted, there are a couple of ways to see this
[2010/03/28 09:24]  Zen Arado: a kind of dissatisfaction with life?
[2010/03/28 09:25]  Zen Arado: yes Mitsu?
[2010/03/28 09:25]  Mitsu Ishii: you can see it in terms of: the distractions themselves, do we have too many distractions? but I think the more interesting aspect is: even when distracted, is it possible to apply practice?
[2010/03/28 09:25]  Zen Arado: how can you tell what is a distraction?
[2010/03/28 09:25]  Mitsu Ishii: ordinarily the distractions totally fill up our mind space
[2010/03/28 09:25]  Eliza Madrigal: yes, distractions as material
[2010/03/28 09:26]  Zen Arado: is sitting here a dsitraction?
[2010/03/28 09:26]  Eliza Madrigal: could be
[2010/03/28 09:26]  Eliza Madrigal: or rather what is going on while you sit here
[2010/03/28 09:26]  Eliza Madrigal: ?
[2010/03/28 09:26]  Dao Yheng: probably! :)
[2010/03/28 09:26]  Bleu Oleander: are distractions places of attention
[2010/03/28 09:26]  Mitsu Ishii: well, let's say you think of practice as having to do with that sort of clarity we all sometimes get while sitting
[2010/03/28 09:26]  Mitsu Ishii: or doing some other meditation
[2010/03/28 09:27]  Zen Arado: should we just give uo everything and devote ourselves to meditation etc?
[2010/03/28 09:27]  Dao Yheng: Just noticing that we do like to distract ourselves, noticing that feeling of disconnection is an important first step for me
[2010/03/28 09:27]  Mitsu Ishii: so then it seems as though when we don't have that clarity, we're agitated or involved with some worry or busy, that practice isn't possible
[2010/03/28 09:27]  Bleu Oleander: why would you do that Zen?
[2010/03/28 09:27]  Eliza Madrigal: yes @ Dao... that's what I've noticed.... it really is not what is going on around but the 'way' we are with ourselves
[2010/03/28 09:28]  Mitsu Ishii: but the interesting thing to me is finding a way to have some degree of awakeness no matter what is happening --- right, as you mention Eliza
[2010/03/28 09:28]  Zen Arado: well - it might be what I am avoiding with distractions?
[2010/03/28 09:28]  Zen Arado: avoiding the kind of intense practice that is necessary
[2010/03/28 09:28]  Zen Arado: taking a lesser path?
[2010/03/28 09:29]  Zen Arado: just worries I have
[2010/03/28 09:29]  Mitsu Ishii: right, that's one angle on it, Zen. but another might be, if we say, I want to stop distracting myself, are we avoiding seeing what the distraction itself is?
[2010/03/28 09:29]  Dao Yheng: Hmm, yes, I feel that too Zen
[2010/03/28 09:29]  Zen Arado: we can practice with everything in our lives after all
[2010/03/28 09:29]  Eliza Madrigal: yes!
[2010/03/28 09:29]  Dao Yheng: right, and why don't we?
[2010/03/28 09:29]  Mitsu Ishii: worry seems like a disconnection but it is also that we don't really see worry for what it is
[2010/03/28 09:29]  Bleu Oleander: are some distractions useful and even welcomed?
[2010/03/28 09:30]  Zen Arado: if we could see clearly the right path then we would know when we are indulging distractions?
[2010/03/28 09:30]  Eliza Madrigal: I'm reminded of a favorite quote (apologies if I've shared it before) "If the meditator is able to use whatever occurs in his life as the Path, his body becomes a retreat hut." Jigme Lingpa
[2010/03/28 09:30]  Dao Yheng: true, distractions can be useful too -- a form of openness to the unexpected
[2010/03/28 09:30]  Mitsu Ishii: we talked about this a lot recently. there are different approaches. one is to simply try to limit or tone down distractions (which in fact can be useful)
[2010/03/28 09:31]  Zen Arado: yes Eliza !
[2010/03/28 09:31]  Mitsu Ishii: but another is --- to be able to have presence even while distracted, so that one can have presence no matter what
[2010/03/28 09:31]  Bleu Oleander: like that quote Eliza
[2010/03/28 09:32]  Zen Arado: so we can still have fun ?
[2010/03/28 09:32]  Zen Arado: :)
[2010/03/28 09:32]  Eliza Madrigal: perhaps a base of getting out of distractions long enough to taste a kind of peace.. then getting into distractions and working with them from that peaceful place...
[2010/03/28 09:32]  Mitsu Ishii: when distractions themselves can be seen as presence, then we have something that cannot be dislodged easily
[2010/03/28 09:32]  Bleu Oleander: yes!
[2010/03/28 09:32]  Mitsu Ishii: yes, Eliza, I think that is a good approach
[2010/03/28 09:32]  Eliza Madrigal: Mmm, distractions as presence... that's lovely
[2010/03/28 09:33]  Zen Arado: too many things though - too much multi-tasking
[2010/03/28 09:33]  Mitsu Ishii: it's difficult to practice while distracted, but I like that line from the Lojong very much because it's so important
[2010/03/28 09:33]  Zen Arado: why do we complicate our lives ?
[2010/03/28 09:33]  Mitsu Ishii: Yes, Zen, I think it makes sense sometimes to just limit distraction, if that helps
[2010/03/28 09:33]  Mitsu Ishii: or go on retreat
[2010/03/28 09:33]  Bleu Oleander: because we can
[2010/03/28 09:34]  Eliza Madrigal: something to do... heheh
[2010/03/28 09:34]  Zen Arado: :)
[2010/03/28 09:34]  Dao Yheng: there is a sort of machismo in juggling lots of things at once :)
[2010/03/28 09:34]  Eliza Madrigal: true!
[2010/03/28 09:34]  Eliza Madrigal: a charge
[2010/03/28 09:34]  Eliza Madrigal: Hi Rhiannon :)
[2010/03/28 09:34]  Mitsu Ishii: but it is also important to realize that no matter what there is still original mind, which is the basis of everything, whether distracted or not
[2010/03/28 09:34]  Rhiannon Dragoone: hi Eliza
[2010/03/28 09:34]  Zen Arado: Hi Rhiannon
[2010/03/28 09:34]  Rhiannon Dragoone: hi Zen
[2010/03/28 09:35]  Rhiannon Dragoone: The topic is the origins of knowledge?
[2010/03/28 09:35]  Eliza Madrigal: We are talking about working with distraction :) Here's the link to the workshop: http://ways-of-knowing.wik.is/
[2010/03/28 09:35]  Eliza Madrigal: For the last several weeks we've been discussing "Lojong" slogans
[2010/03/28 09:36]  Zen Arado: Suzuki quote - Zen is not some kind of excitement, but concentration on our usual everyday routine.
[2010/03/28 09:36]  Rhiannon Dragoone: I work with distraction all the time; the key is to focus, re-focus, and focus again
[2010/03/28 09:36]  Rhiannon Dragoone: A kind of de-focues concentration, though, Zen is
[2010/03/28 09:36]  Mitsu Ishii: The approach I have taken is something like what Eliza just wrote, above
[2010/03/28 09:37]  Mitsu Ishii: So we take a step back and remove some distractions for a while, i.e., sitting meditation or going on periodic retreat
[2010/03/28 09:37]  Mitsu Ishii: but then go back into life and try to find some flavor of clarity even while distracted
[2010/03/28 09:37]  Zen Arado: soon as get back fro a retreat I am back into my usual distractions though
[2010/03/28 09:37]  Mitsu Ishii: I like to think of it as a sort of double exposure; there's the distraction, but then a hint of clarity in the background. over time, it grows
[2010/03/28 09:38]  Zen Arado: suspect Facebook and Twitter are unnecessary distractions
[2010/03/28 09:38]  Rhiannon Dragoone: I thought the point of Zen was to completely be in the world; don't allow the Ego to disrupte what ur doing
[2010/03/28 09:38]  Mitsu Ishii: right, that's the problem, Zen. when clarity seems to be separate from distraction then distraction can just wash away clarity
[2010/03/28 09:38]  Rhiannon Dragoone: Zen, lmao
[2010/03/28 09:38]  Zen Arado: yes Rhiannon
[2010/03/28 09:38]  Mitsu Ishii: but it is possible to bring clarity into distraction so they are co present
[2010/03/28 09:38]  Eliza Madrigal: Well, zen anything can and can't be.... facebook, for instance, allows me to quickly check in with a family member or send a pic, rather than talking on the phone for 2 hrs....
[2010/03/28 09:38]  Mitsu Ishii: that is actually tricky, and difficult
[2010/03/28 09:39]  Zen Arado: another Suzuki quote: When you do something, you should burn yourself up completely, like a good bonfire, leaving no trace of yourself.
[2010/03/28 09:39]  Mitsu Ishii: That Suzuki quote reminds me of a Zen joke
[2010/03/28 09:39]  Rhiannon Dragoone: Zen, i like that one
[2010/03/28 09:39]  Mitsu Ishii: there was a Zen abbott who used to say "When you read, read! When you eat, eat!"
[2010/03/28 09:39]  Mitsu Ishii: then one day his students caught him reading while eating.
[2010/03/28 09:39]  Rhiannon Dragoone: Mitsu, yes!
[2010/03/28 09:39]  Mitsu Ishii: So he exclaimed "When you read and eat, read and eat!"
[2010/03/28 09:40]  Zen Arado: yes :)
[2010/03/28 09:40]  Eliza Madrigal: hehehehe, love that
[2010/03/28 09:40]  Rhiannon Dragoone: /me claps with one hand at that
[2010/03/28 09:40]  Eliza Madrigal: /me believes in mindful multitasking...
[2010/03/28 09:40]  Zen Arado: :)
[2010/03/28 09:40]  Dao Yheng: :)
[2010/03/28 09:40]  Dao Yheng: Hm, so what is leaving the traces when looking at facebook?
[2010/03/28 09:40]  Mitsu Ishii: the point is that when we distract ourselves it is not just the distraction but the way we get lost while distracted.
[2010/03/28 09:40]  Rhiannon Dragoone: mindful mutli-tasking; i like that
[2010/03/28 09:40]  Zen Arado: so...distractions aren't really distractions then?
[2010/03/28 09:41]  Mitsu Ishii: as we get more deep into presence and familiar with it, less and less can actually dislodge presence, so it becomes possible to do more and more without being totally upended
[2010/03/28 09:41]  Zen Arado: depends on the way we do them?
[2010/03/28 09:41]  Rhiannon Dragoone: Zen, I think they are, unless u focus on them completely too
[2010/03/28 09:41]  Eliza Madrigal: Dao, maybe if we step on the train... go from looking at facebook to getting pulled to the next thing, then the next...?
[2010/03/28 09:41]  Mitsu Ishii: distractions can be distractions, or they can be fundamental being
[2010/03/28 09:41]  Eliza Madrigal: Hi Betz, Welcome :) http://ways-of-knowing.wik.is/
[2010/03/28 09:41]  Zen Arado: Hi Betz
[2010/03/28 09:41]  Betz Darwinian: Morning. sorry i am late.
[2010/03/28 09:42]  Eliza Madrigal: /me nods @ Mitsu... The Ground itself
[2010/03/28 09:42]  Mitsu Ishii: hello Betz, welcome
[2010/03/28 09:42]  Eliza Madrigal: No worries at all, Betz :)
[2010/03/28 09:42]  Mitsu Ishii: Even clarity can become a distraction, if we turn it into an achievement and attach to it
[2010/03/28 09:42]  Zen Arado: yes Mitsu
[2010/03/28 09:42]  Eliza Madrigal: tell me about it... ;-)
[2010/03/28 09:43]  Zen Arado: hundred poot pole?
[2010/03/28 09:43]  Zen Arado: foot :)
[2010/03/28 09:43]  Mitsu Ishii: yeah exactly :)
[2010/03/28 09:43]  Rhiannon Dragoone: Yes, any ambition, like Master Po's ambition to be treated like anyone else; leading to Kane's killing the imperial nephew
[2010/03/28 09:43]  Rhiannon Dragoone: uh, if u've seen Kung fu, that is
[2010/03/28 09:43]  Dao Yheng: :)
[2010/03/28 09:43]  Mitsu Ishii: good old kung fu!
[2010/03/28 09:43]  Rhiannon Dragoone: well, i thought the pilot was like Taoism/Buddhism 101
[2010/03/28 09:44]  Eliza Madrigal: I want to bring up, before we're too late into the session, that Calvino has asked to work with the "Five Forces" before we move on from lojong. Perhaps we can take that as this week's homework?
[2010/03/28 09:44]  Rhiannon Dragoone: /me hopes they don't think she's a complete bubblehead now
[2010/03/28 09:44]  Zen Arado: ok sure
[2010/03/28 09:44]  Eliza Madrigal: Not at all Rhi :)
[2010/03/28 09:44]  Zen Arado: not at all Rhiannon
[2010/03/28 09:44]  Rhiannon Dragoone: /me smiles in relief at Eliza and Zen
[2010/03/28 09:44]  Dao Yheng: You'd have to be a deep thinker to get something out of TV :)
[2010/03/28 09:45]  Eliza Madrigal: hehehehe
[2010/03/28 09:45]  Rhiannon Dragoone: Dao, hee, hee.
[2010/03/28 09:45]  Zen Arado: cultivates 'beginner's mind'
[2010/03/28 09:45]  Rhiannon Dragoone: Yes, the lessons from King of Queens, for instance
[2010/03/28 09:45]  Dao Yheng: :))
[2010/03/28 09:45]  Mitsu Ishii: The Five Forces is a kind of very compact summary of the Theravadan aspect of Buddhist practice
[2010/03/28 09:46]  Eliza Madrigal: Oh?
[2010/03/28 09:46]  Rhiannon Dragoone: Mitsu, thanks, that was my next question
[2010/03/28 09:46]  Mitsu Ishii: * Work with the Five Forces. The Five Forces are:
 
  1. Be intense, be committed.
  2. Familiarization – get used to doing and being what you want to do and to be.
  3. Cultivate the white seeds, not the black ones.
  4. Turn totally away from all your ego trips.
  5. Dedicate all the merits of what you do for the benefit of others.
[2010/03/28 09:46]  Rhiannon Dragoone: I've read Suzuki and Allan Watts, and some Buddhist scriptues, but i have never hearf of the Five Forces
[2010/03/28 09:46]  Mitsu Ishii: we're talking about Lojong
[2010/03/28 09:46]  Mitsu Ishii: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lojong
[2010/03/28 09:46]  Mitsu Ishii: The Five Forces are a part of that teaching
[2010/03/28 09:47]  Zen Arado: http://www.lojongmindtraining.com/
[2010/03/28 09:47]  Eliza Madrigal: I wonder why they are grouped this way?
[2010/03/28 09:47]  Rhiannon Dragoone: thank you
[2010/03/28 09:47]  Rhiannon Dragoone: Does the grouping matter, as long as u do the practice?
[2010/03/28 09:48]  Mitsu Ishii: I can only speculate, but my guess is because he sort of wanted to summarize that cycle of teaching together
[2010/03/28 09:48]  Dao Yheng: You'd have a include a comment about ego trips when encouraging someone to work hard?
[2010/03/28 09:48]  Mitsu Ishii: i.e., the Five Forces reminds me of Theravadan techniques, which I am not that familiar with as it isn't what my sangha emphasizes, but that's how it appears to me
[2010/03/28 09:49]  Eliza Madrigal: Rhi, its just a curiosity because of the long list of slogans, with these clustered as if a pointer... hm,,, okay thanks
[2010/03/28 09:49]  Eliza Madrigal: How so, Dao?
[2010/03/28 09:50]  Rhiannon Dragoone: /me nods at Eliza
[2010/03/28 09:50]  Zen Arado: "The five strengths are instructions on how to live and how to die." Pema chidron
[2010/03/28 09:51]  Zen Arado: Chodron
[2010/03/28 09:51]  Zen Arado: a pretty broad categorization !
[2010/03/28 09:51]  Eliza Madrigal: wow yes
[2010/03/28 09:52]  Dao Yheng: If you are going to suggest to someone that they work hard, make distinctions between "black and white" seeds, etc, you'd also need to include a comment about not attaching to the results / ego?
[2010/03/28 09:52]  Rhiannon Dragoone: Well, to apply to all humans, they would have to be broad
[2010/03/28 09:52]  Eliza Madrigal: Ah, yes... we expect 'returns' for our investments....
[2010/03/28 09:52]  Eliza Madrigal: so maybe why it ends with dedication of merit...
[2010/03/28 09:52]  Dao Yheng: yes
[2010/03/28 09:52]  Rhiannon Dragoone: Well, isn't the ego here the nagging little voice that says "You're not doing it right; you're a slut; your'e a whore; you're stupid?"
[2010/03/28 09:53]  Mitsu Ishii: yes, it's crucial to let that go!
[2010/03/28 09:53]  Dao Yheng: yes, that too!
[2010/03/28 09:53]  Zen Arado: see it as just thoughts
[2010/03/28 09:53]  Eliza Madrigal: not louder than anything else
[2010/03/28 09:54]  Mitsu Ishii: of course, elsewhere in the Lojong are admonitons to abandon hope of results, and to accept yourself
[2010/03/28 09:54]  Zen Arado: not easy - we get caught so easily
[2010/03/28 09:54]  Rhiannon Dragoone: yeah, accept what u gotta do
[2010/03/28 09:55]  Mitsu Ishii: acceptance of course doesn't mean just going along with your habits. it just means not beating yourself up because of anything you may see in yourself, whether "positive" or "negative"
[2010/03/28 09:55]  Bleu Oleander: (c u all later, getting too many rl distractions :) )
[2010/03/28 09:55]  Mitsu Ishii: bye Bleu
[2010/03/28 09:55]  Eliza Madrigal: Bye Bleu, thanks
[2010/03/28 09:55]  Zen Arado: bye Bleu
[2010/03/28 09:55]  Rhiannon Dragoone: CU Bleu
[2010/03/28 09:55]  Dao Yheng: Bye Bleu
[2010/03/28 09:56]  Dao Yheng: Are there other slogans that people want to put on the list?
[2010/03/28 09:56]  Eliza Madrigal: yes, and in that acceptance perhaps there is less energy drain keeping one from making needed changes ...
[2010/03/28 09:56]  Eliza Madrigal: Ah, good question Dao
[2010/03/28 09:56]  Zen Arado: there are 4 there though
[2010/03/28 09:57]  Zen Arado: should be enough for nex week?
[2010/03/28 09:57]  Eliza Madrigal: afraid of homework zen?
[2010/03/28 09:57]  Eliza Madrigal: heheh
[2010/03/28 09:57]  Dao Yheng: right - for future reference then?
[2010/03/28 09:57]  Zen Arado: sorry 5
[2010/03/28 09:57]  Eliza Madrigal: Didn't you want to tackle jealousy, Zen?
[2010/03/28 09:57]  Zen Arado: yes :)
[2010/03/28 09:57]  Eliza Madrigal: /me finds that one daunting
[2010/03/28 09:58]  Zen Arado: sure sometime
[2010/03/28 09:58]  Rhiannon Dragoone: jealousy come from attachment; if we get other attachments, we won't be jealous
[2010/03/28 09:58]  Zen Arado: or did we do that as part of anger?
[2010/03/28 09:58]  Rhiannon Dragoone: Won't matter if he goes home to his wife
[2010/03/28 09:59]  Eliza Madrigal: it seems a different category to me... and jealousy isn't just romantic... maybe it is a sense of loss and comparing with others
[2010/03/28 09:59]  Rhiannon Dragoone: Jealousy is attachment
[2010/03/28 09:59]  Zen Arado: yes it is big problem sometimes
[2010/03/28 09:59]  Dao Yheng: it could be a good one -- I find it coming up for me a lot when hearing about other people's sexy meditation experiences for instance :)
[2010/03/28 09:59]  Eliza Madrigal: so seems much to work with, yes.... indeed attachment
[2010/03/28 09:59]  Eliza Madrigal: /me smiles @ Dao
[2010/03/28 10:00]  Eliza Madrigal: spiritual materialism ... relate :)
[2010/03/28 10:00]  Zen Arado: yes
[2010/03/28 10:00]  Dao Yheng: another one for the list -- maybe tonglen practice itself? As you breathe in, take in and accept all the sadness, pain, and negativity of the whole world, including yourself, and absorb it into your heart. As you breathe out, pour out all your joy and bliss; bless the whole of existence.
[2010/03/28 10:01]  Zen Arado: yes - a great practice
[2010/03/28 10:01]  Eliza Madrigal: MMM, yes.
[2010/03/28 10:01]  Mitsu Ishii: yeah, that is a very good one to actually do
[2010/03/28 10:01]  Dao Yheng: that one also feels like it could be challenging for me :)
[2010/03/28 10:01]  Zen Arado: yes practical - not just theory
[2010/03/28 10:01]  Eliza Madrigal: /me nods
[2010/03/28 10:01]  Eliza Madrigal: and also something one can do anywhere... amidst distractions...
[2010/03/28 10:02]  Zen Arado: yes
[2010/03/28 10:02]  Eliza Madrigal: circling back into the rest of our discussion
[2010/03/28 10:02]  Dao Yheng: yes!
[2010/03/28 10:02]  Zen Arado: :)
[2010/03/28 10:02]  Zen Arado: neat Eliza :)
[2010/03/28 10:02]  Mitsu Ishii: we had said we wanted to do a practice element each week
[2010/03/28 10:02]  Eliza Madrigal: true
[2010/03/28 10:02]  Mitsu Ishii: do we want to try Tonglen as a practice element?
[2010/03/28 10:02]  Eliza Madrigal: I do
[2010/03/28 10:02]  Eliza Madrigal: why not have that *with* the topics for the next few weeks?
[2010/03/28 10:02]  Mitsu Ishii: perhaps based on Pema Chodron's instructions
[2010/03/28 10:02]  Mitsu Ishii: http://www.shambhala.org/teachers/pema/tonglen1.php
[2010/03/28 10:03]  Zen Arado: ok
[2010/03/28 10:03]  Mitsu Ishii: okay, let's do that
[2010/03/28 10:03]  Zen Arado: sure
[2010/03/28 10:03]  Eliza Madrigal: thanks for the link
[2010/03/28 10:03]  Dao Yheng: k, sounds good
[2010/03/28 10:03]  Zen Arado: better go
[2010/03/28 10:03]  Mitsu Ishii: all right everyone great to see you as always
[2010/03/28 10:03]  Eliza Madrigal: :)))) So happy to meet with you guys again
[2010/03/28 10:03]  Zen Arado: thanks for discussion all
[2010/03/28 10:03]  Dao Yheng: great to see you all again!
[2010/03/28 10:03]  Rhiannon Dragoone: thank you all for a good discussion
[2010/03/28 10:03]  Mitsu Ishii: eliza you are looking spectacular again
[2010/03/28 10:03]  Eliza Madrigal: Thank you very much
[2010/03/28 10:03]  Rhiannon Dragoone: Glad i could make it this morning
[2010/03/28 10:03]  Eliza Madrigal: /me smiles!
[2010/03/28 10:03]  Eliza Madrigal: Yes, nice that you came, Rhiannon
[2010/03/28 10:03]  Betz Darwinian: thanks
[2010/03/28 10:03]  Rhiannon Dragoone: /me smiles at Zen, Dao, and Eliza
[2010/03/28 10:04]  Zen Arado: smiles back :)
[2010/03/28 10:04]  Mitsu Ishii: thanks for coming Rhiannon and Betz
[2010/03/28 10:04]  Eliza Madrigal: Bye Betz :),Sweet
[2010/03/28 10:04]  Rhiannon Dragoone: The homeowrk will be posted?
[2010/03/28 10:04]  Dao Yheng: :)
[2010/03/28 10:04]  Mitsu Ishii: Yes
[2010/03/28 10:04]  Eliza Madrigal: yes... right no the site.. prob by the end of the day
[2010/03/28 10:04]  Rhiannon Dragoone: yay
[2010/03/28 10:04]  Eliza Madrigal: *on=no
[2010/03/28 10:04]  Zen Arado: bye
[2010/03/28 10:04]  Rhiannon Dragoone: well, hopefully see u all next week
[2010/03/28 10:04]  Rhiannon Dragoone: bye, bye
[2010/03/28 10:04]  Eliza Madrigal: Bye for now all :)
[2010/03/28 10:04]  Dao Yheng: bye all!
[2010/03/28 10:04]  Rhiannon Dragoone: /me waves